Anonymous asked: "i like this guy. i've liked him for years. maybe i even love him. but idk what to do. i swear sometimes it feels like he likes me too. i always catch him staring at me and etc. but i honestly dont know what to do. i would tell him how i feel, but i've told him before that i 'liked' him and he shot me down, we remained friends. but now it feels like reality slapped me in the face. i should move on. i really want to. but i dont know how :L"

I see.. Well, I think you have to be sure you want more than just friendship with him. If you’re at least 90% sure of that, then slowly talk to him. Like, sit and have a serious conversation. If he says you’re just friends, then I guess you should move on. No boy is worth your tears. So just say “Well, okay” and meet new people, go to new places and mostly, don’t get sad. Because that’s life, you know? And you might even see that you didn’t really love him, you were just having a crush on him because you’re friends and you were kinda lonely and wanting to love someone, it happens really often. So sit down and talk to him, it’s the best you can do. It’s better if it’s face to face, okay? Good luck, darling, let me know if I can do anything else!

1. its-not-a-dreamanymore said: Sorry to but in,but I went through exactly what the anon said.I told him in December completely how I felt.He told me he didn’t feel the same,but he had done at one point.I was upset that I had missed a chance,but I felt like a weight had been lifted
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